Daily Nugget #115
dude. who let one rip?!
you know.
you are walking thru the grocery store
~or anywhere for that matter~
and
you run IN to a
wall of gaseous-ness.
you gag.
you choke.
you run to escape
hoping that the next person who ‘finds it’
won’t think it was you who left it.
do you care when that happens?
do you turn your nose up in disgust?
wondering why anyone would do such a thing?
me?
i’m like:
‘damn. i can smell why that person had to let it rip.
cause death would be swift if they held that in.’
now
what about if you saw someone itch their ass
or
make out with their mate in the isle
or
not wear shoes
or
not work. not conform. have a baby in high school. drop out of college.
do lots of drugs. wear clothes that don’t match. dance wildly. sing loudly.
would you care?
do you pay attention?
do you judge?
do you wonder what the HELL those people are doing/thinking?
do you create stories in your head about their experiences
pretending you know how they feel?
imagine a world where NO one judged one another!
where we were free to make our own choices.
free to be exactly who we are.
to love who or what we want.
to change our situation whenever we felt like it.
fart in the grocery isle if we need to.
run when we need to.
drop out when it’s right for us.
basically ALLOW ourselves and others
to do. be. have.
anything that we desire
(as long as it doesn’t hurt anyone).
ALLOW ourselves and others
to have exactly the kind of experience that we seek!!
have you ever held back from something
because you were afraid of what others would think?
when so much of you really really really wanted to do/be/have
whatever it is?!
or
have you ever TOTALLY judged someone else
for their choices or actions?
and
either voiced it directly to them
or voiced it silently to yourself
sending daggers of judgement
that land in that persons energy field
and
affect their experience
and their joy??
judgement
like belief
is one of those subjects that i keep coming back to.
we are quick to judge most things.
even if you are conscious and aware
there is a natural tendency to judge.
our brains need to make sense of what we are seeing
and
either approve
or
dis-approve.
what if we ALL lost that ability?
what if it just stopped happening?
it evolved OUT of our cells
and stopped being so damn automatic
controlling how we feel
about any given person
in any given situation??
i dream of a judgment free world.
interesting that mainstream religious beliefs
talk about a JUDGMENT DAY.
i can’t think of anything more horrible
than my eternal paradise or demise
being decided by putting my life and choices under a microscope
to be JUDGED.
gosh. give a human a break.
yea. there are some sucky people out there
but anyone can change.
we all make choices that take us down a not-so-desirable pathway sometimes.
but wouldn’t a better way be:
‘hey, i love you anyways.
how can i help?’
‘hey, i love you anyways. how can i help?’
doesn’t that just feel better
on both sides of the equation?
offering help if need be
or
giving space.
offering a smile
when you recognize someone
living/speaking/BEing their truth?
pay attention to your auto judge reflex that kicks in
and
smile instead 😀
ALLOW everyone to BE who they are
(including yourself)
and
express that are-ness
however they want.
ALLOW ALLOW ALLOW.
why is it that allowing is a challenge?
maybe
at the same time that our judge muscles atrophy and dissolve and evolve away
our allow muscles will become strong and healthy??!!
test this theory from both sides.
FART out in public
and
see how people respond.
and
watch your response to those in their freak zone.
allow allow.
ALLOW!
i wanna hear
‘dude. who let one rip?’
more often.